Friday, July 13, 2012

Superstitions...And a Contest!

Good morning followers, friends, readers, and guests! Ready to get your superstition on? I looked at the calendar a few weeks back trying to decide some off the wall, quirky promotional thing to do and when I saw a Friday the 13th coming up…well, I couldn’t resist! Today we’ll have a bit of a discussion on some superstitions…I’ll reveal a few of my own and then we’ll have a bit of a give-away.

Everyone has heard of the standard superstitions I’m sure. Don’t walk under a ladder, a broken mirror bring seven years’ bad luck, a black cat crossing your path is sure to bring hell raining down, and a raven on your fence is a sign of impending doom, horse shoes and four leaf clovers bring good luck, and salt is thought to have magical powers, but have you ever heard of these…
I managed to locate a few little known superstitions.
If you say good-bye to a friend on a bridge, you will never see each other again.
Don’t lean a broom against a bed lest a spell creep upon you.
Don’t drop your brush/comb while brushing your hair or you’ll have more than a bad hair day.
Professional actors think it bad luck to have a perfect rehearsal before performance night.

I don’t know about you, but that one about the broom sort of freaks me out a bit. I have enough trouble sleeping as it is, in fact one of my “rituals” is the closet door must be shut before I go to bed. Call it a left over remnant of my childhood and the “boogeyman” days, but if the door’s not shut, my eyes aren’t either. Want to know some of my other personal superstitions?
My husband has a special set of dog tags. He’s had them since he first joined the Marine Corps. It’s most important that these dog tags are around his neck before he gets on the bus to deploy. Call us crazy, call us, well, superstitious, but the dog tags are sacred. A little over a year ago, I put him on the bus, came home and found the dog tags hanging on the headboard where they hang when he’s not gone somewhere. I didn’t rest until I heard he’d received them. I mailed them immediately via the fastest most expensive mail I could buy.
I carry a lucky dollar. I know…sounds right crazy, but I was told as a child if you gave someone a wallet you were supposed to put a penny in it so that person would never have an empty wallet. In other words, it was to keep them from being poor. I figured as an adult a dollar was better and I have a dollar bill tucked in my wallet that’s been in there for years and never gets spent. I’ve never wanted for a thing either.

 
So what are some of your superstitions?
Leave me some comment love about what you do to avoid bad luck or attain good luck. The contest is open until midnight Sunday night when I'll choose a random comment and I’ll announce the winner here on Monday. The prize…a $13.00 Amazon gift card…
Thanks for coming by and happy reading!
Lila 

24 comments:

  1. Friday the 13th doesn't scare me - I graduated from college on Friday May 13 so I decided it was a lucky day for me. But I've got my own superstitions, mostly handed down. In my mom's family if you give someone a knife as a gift, you have to give them a silver coin, a nickel, dime or quarter because otherwise the relationship will be cut. When my in-laws gave me a set of steak knives, I think they thought I was a little weird but they accepted the nickel! And I always toss a few grains of salt over my left shoulder if I spill any salt!

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    1. Hi Lee Ann! I'd never heard of the knife one...interesting! Now I do do that salt thing. :)

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  2. Hmm... superstitions are always fascinating to me, Lila--often they aren't things that our rational minds concede to be fact, but they are things that frighten us enough that we follow through, just to make sure we stay safe :) When I was a kid, I used to be VERY careful to avoid cracks in the sidewalk; I remember wondering whether the natural cracks counted just as the lines etched in by the sidewalk makers...

    And when we were in the wedding gift mode, we were taught that you never give someone a knife because it's wishing that their life/marriage is cut short. If you do buy them a blade, you gift it along with a coin that they can return to you, maintaining the illusion that they have purchased it from you, so there's no harm from the gift.

    f dot chen at comcast dot net

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    1. Oh I remember the don't step on a crack thing when I was a kid...had forgotten all about that one. Interesting on the knife as a wedding gift, never heard of that one, but I remember not wanting to break the ribbons on the gifts as that was supposed to be indicative of how many children you would have. :)

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  3. Friday the 13th does not bother me. Both of my kids were born on the 13th, one march, the other may. My son was actually born on Friday the 13th. A have a black cat at home, so don't believe the crossing the path. I do believe in the upturned horseshoe, I think 4 leaf clovers are cool, but not sure on the lucky.
    Love your books and would love to win tr gift card. Thanks for the giveaway.
    Christinebails@yahoo.com

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    1. Hi Christine! My folks had a horse shoe on the fence when we were kids and I used to love to hunt four leaf clovers although I must confess not sure on the luck either. :) Thanks for stopping by!

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  4. Hi Lila,
    There are a few things that I have to do because they are habits but I don't believe in bad luck. I can certainly understand about the dog tags. If my husband traveled then I would do anything to keep him safe.

    Thanks! Melissa
    daringzoey@yahoo.com

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    1. Hey Melissa! I think most superstitions are silly. ;) But the dog tags...not taking the chance. :) Thanks for stopping by...and don't take any wooden nickels.

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  5. Hi Lila,

    For me Friday the 13th has always been a lucky day. i void walking under ladders not because of a superstition, but because it would probably fall an me! I am just so clumsy. Thanks for the contest.

    Teresa

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    1. Hi Teresa! Ladders are scary for me, at least in the climbing them portion. I'm terrified of heights, so while I'm not sure one would fall on me, it would probably be my luck to fall off one...:)

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  6. I am not really superstitios but I never walk under a ladder. Mostly because I am afraid of injury! I have broken a couple mirrors so I say that is why bad things have happened to me in life! Like those extra pounds may be caused by bad luck!
    OceanAkers @ aol.com

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    1. Hi Juliana! Oh I like that theory about the pounds...;) Thanks for coming by!

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  7. I am a firm believer in things happening in threes - that is the only one I have held to all these years.

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    1. Hey Karen! I believe in that one firmly as well. In fact I did a blog post a while back on the rule of threes which I've thoroughly crushed by writing my series books in groupings of more than that. It seems to be working out for the better though. ;)

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  8. I LOVE Friday the 13th!! The only real superstition I have is that if we are out driving at night, at any time of the year and we say the word "deer" we will hit one or at the very least SEE one. So that word is forbidden in the car!!
    Ashley A
    ash_app@hotmail.com

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    1. Hi Ashley! Pesky deer...:) We don't have that rule, but I think I'll try it as many of them as we see here. Thanks for stopping in!

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  9. I don't really have any superstitions or anything like that. I have never been afraid of Friday the 13th, maybe because I watched the movies from the time I was really young. After what happens to those characters, nothing that happens to me on the 13th can be that bad, lol.
    manning_j2004 at yahoo dot com

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    1. Hi June! I agree, what gruesome movies! :) I used to be a scary movie junkie, but as I got older I became quite a chicken and they just don't appeal to me at all now. Thanks for coming by!

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  10. I like Friday the 13th and I have a beautiful black cat. Not walking under ladders is basically a safety issue (things dropping on you)is about it. Tell you husband Semper Fi (I was in the Marine Corps in the 70s)and thank you for your service.
    Patricia
    panthers.ravens@yahoo dot com

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    1. Hi Patricia! Semper Fi, lady! Thank you so much for your service and for paving the way for the strong women we have standing tall today. I posted some lady warriors on my Facebook wall yesterday and I've written a couple of stories about them and have plans to write more. Thanks for coming by!

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  11. I can't think of any superstitions that i have...hmmm...I guess I do a few things like through salt over my shoulder but not because I think bad luck will follow...I am just a creature of habit! Oh wait, I thought of one. Many years ago i saw an episode of twilight zone (or one of the wannabees) that had a very, very, very old lady in it that said as long as she didn't read the end of a story before going to sleep she would wake up the next day to find out what happened... so I try to never go to bed without at least reading the first line of my next book so i'll never die. mwahahahaha
    chellebee66 at gmail dot com

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    1. Hi Michelle! lol..I think that's one of the best superstitions ever! I myself know if I read the first line I'll be there all night because books are like potato chips for me, can't stop once I'm started. :) Thanks for coming by!

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  12. Hm, now that I think about it..
    I'm not really that superstitious anymore. LOL... when I was in middle school though, I remember, I would seriously jump over cracks. You know... "Don't step on any cracks or break your grandmother's back" (LOL!)
    But lately, I don't really get into it. But Yeah... I don't look down on it or think it dumb... sometimes Bad luck really does follow on Friday the 13th.

    Like right now at home... My sister got sick. She was PERFECTLY fine on Thursday...
    Friday.. She was sick as hell. coughing, Fever, Soreness, Headache... the works. LOL... So every now and then on Friday the 13ths, I drink more Orange juice. lol

    Thank you for the contest!!

    Judi
    arella3173_loveless(at)yahoo(dot)com

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  13. I know! me too! Sometimes its the 3rd or 4th 'I'm just gonna read the 1st paragrapgh' before I can actually go to bed :)

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