Independence Day…You know as a military wife I could go
crazy with this topic and I could go in so many directions. I could climb up on
my soap box and really break this subject down, but I decided today…we’d take a
little trip down Memory Lane…
You see, even before I met and married my very own true
fighter for our freedom, Independence Day was a big event in our neck of the
woods. There were fireworks, running through the garden hose spray, sunburns,
hot dogs, potato salad and watermelon…and more fireworks. My family wasn’t real
big on the real big ones…they scared my Mom a bit and not because of the big
noises or big lights. She was always afraid one of us would get hurt with the
darn things. But we had plenty of sparklers, bottle rockets, and those cool
fountains of color. I loved those. Oh, and Roman candles, although I have yet
to understand why on America’s Independence Day we were using something Italian.
Go figure…
But, the thing that strikes me most is the fact that we understood
early on from a very young age what Independence Day meant and what we were
celebrating. It wasn’t just a day to eat until we were sick then play with
fireworks until there were no more of them left. It was a day to celebrate our
country’s birth. Which, in my humble opinion, has become a side-burner issue in
a lot of households these days. I don’t think kids really understand or maybe
even know what it is we’re shooting off all the colorful displays for. Which,
in my humble opinion, is a sad state of affairs.
After growing up and marrying that fighter of our freedoms I
call husband now, our Independence Day took on an even great meaning, although
we had military men in our family long before him, there’s something about being
married to your own that just brings something deeper to the table. I guess it
becomes more personal at that point. I come from a long line of men and women
that have served and am proud of that. Proud that they stood for something
greater than themselves. I’m grateful for all men and women out there that
fight to keep those ideals and principles alive that were founded some two
hundred thirty six years ago (actually it was prior to that, the date just
signifies the signing of the declaration), but I admire my husband for being
one of them and am grateful for him every day. Without all those people who’ve
come before us, I wouldn’t be able to be here today chatting about what Independence
Day is really all about and reminding everyone to be sure to take the time to
explain to your children what we’re doing besides eating and watching the
fireworks displays and running through the sprinklers. Take a moment to explain
to them what the day really means.
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Hi Lila! such a nice post.I was thinking the same thing yesterday--that we tend to forget the reason for the day, as I watched my 10th ad for an appliance sale!(I thought Geo. Washington had reserved that). When my husband was alive we always had a big fireworks display--& he'd pick one adolescent boy to help--they loved it! Happy 4th (my blog's about a different 4th memory..) Meredith
ReplyDeleteA lovely ,touching post Lila. I've always admired the way Americans celebrate Independence Day.....we don't have a National day..in fact it seems we have to apologise for being English.
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What a great post. Thank you to all the service men and women that have defended this great country. I always made sure that my kids knew why we were celebrating and when my oldest son joined the Army I was so proud. After he came back from Iraq the fireworks were difficult for him so we tended to stay away. Now that he has his angel wings, my grandkids told me that the fireworks were for Uncle Dane to say thank you and we love you. I like that.
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it's like that in Canada day.. it's a great day to reflect on how lucky everyone in the US and Canada that we live in such great and free countries
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Hi everyone! Thanks for coming by! Susie don't ever apologize for being English...I myself think you guys rock when it comes to pageantry, the Queen's celebration was tops! (Secretly I often wonder what would have been had we lost...don't tell anyone...I might be a Duchess somewhere now instead of an enlisted wife. ;)Hi Meredith! I'm looking at Pier One clearances today, don't feel bad about the appliances. ;) Not our fault they put out good deals on all the holidays. Hi Sue! Thanks you so much for your families service. Hi Laurie! Happy Canada Day! Hope you had lots to eat and drink at all the celebrations. :) Welcome aboard April! Hope you enjoy reading my offerings....
ReplyDeleteI love the 4th of July! I love being in a country that celebrates our founding history! Our kids are very well aware of why we celebrate. I find that they are so much more grateful for being able to celebrate and enjoy it immensely!
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What a wonderful post. I love getting family together for a bbq. Our city puts on fireworks that we can walk to which is fun. Though my favorite fire works were the displays at Disney Land.
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ReplyDeleteI agree and I have to say I am so proud of my son at the age of 14 has a great deal of respect for our Miltary. He idolizes my father who is a Vietnam vet and is always asking questions, in fact he says he hopes my dad will give him his dog tags someday. On all the days we celebrate and honor our wonderful men and women who have served as well still serve he is the first to make his thoughts known of how proud he is of not just his grandfather but his cousin who served in Irag.
ReplyDeleteif it wasn't for those men, 100's of years ago we wouldn't have the freedoms we have now.
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Today is a day so many of us are privileged to celebrate but the fireworks really go to the men and women who have made and continue to make this possible...hurrah to the milatary and peacekeepers! God Bless! Happy and safe 4th to everyone!
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The 4th of July has always been my favorite holiday! It is a reminder to everyone that some gave all so we can be free!!! All the men in my family have served in the armed forces spanning three wars...I'm so proud of them!!! Happy Independence Day!!!!!
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Hey everyone! Thanks so much for stopping by and taking time out of your day to leave me some comment love. :) Hope you all have a blessed and wonderful holiday today and good luck to everyone in the give aways!
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Love all the fireworks. Always try to watch the shows on tv. No traffic to deal with. Already subscribe to the newsletter.
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Happy 4th of July!!! Thanks for the contest! We loved watching the fireworks tonight! They were GREAT!!!
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ty for the post
ReplyDeletegoin to the local park for the fireworks show and the mini fair that they have
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