Thursday, April 5, 2012

Happy Birthday, Carrie Ann Ryan! Welcome to Her Blog Hop Party Everyone!

First I'd like to wish Carrie Ann a very happy birthday and wish her the best! And I'd like to thank her for letting me help her celebrate. :)

The topic of discussion. Birthdays...how do I celebrate?

Well, funny thing about my birthday, it holds very special significance for me...in fact, of the romantic kind. How fitting since we are after all romance writers. :) Let me spin you a yarn...one of true love...

The year, 1996. The month, October. The place, a bar just outside the nearest military installation. (Yes, I'm one of those that picked her Marine up in a club. :) ) Enter one Sgt of Marines. He was cute. And cocky! He wouldn't speak to me all night in fact, which infuriated me. The more I flirted the more he resisted my wiles. I'd given up at something past midnight and the bar was clearing out. It was a weeknight afterall and folks did have to work the next day, hungover or not. Enter Dork of Marines...

"Oh, dear Lord, what's this one doing? Go away, go away, go away. Not him. God not him. Where do I go? Can't a flipping hole open up in the floor and swallow me whole...."

"Would you like to dance?" It was the Sgt of Marines that had been ignoring me all night and he'd stepped in Dorks path.

Hmmph! Asshole or dork?

"Yes, I would."

"You didn't need to be with that guy."

"Ya think?"

As the evening wore on and the clock chimed almost two, I discovered we were the only people left and my friendly neighborhood cocktail waitress was tapping her wrist. I allowed him to drive me home, he was in a condition to do so, but I was adamant in that this was not a "date" and it was not a "sleep over." He kept telling me that he understood and I kept thinking 'sure he did, he was a Marine for Christ sake, all gung-ho and all that, used to pillaging and taking what they wanted.' What the hell was I doing in a car with him?

Oh, yeah, before I thought he was an asshole I thought he was cute.

We talked until he had to leave to go back to base or be late, he wasn't out of the way with me in any shape, form, or fashion. Then right before he stepped off my porch, he kissed me. Oh. My. God. You know those kisses we describe in our writing? The toe-curling ones? The ones that tell our heroine, hang on he is the one?

It was that kiss.

We'd been dating a few weeks when he asked me when my birthday was.

"March six."

"Me, too."

I looked at him like he had three heads. We'd not slept together yet, in fact he'd spent many a night on my carpet and me in the bedroom with the door closed. This was the lamest "bed her" line I'd ever heard in my life.

"You're lying."

"No, I'm not."

"Prove it."

He did, with the presentation of his driver's license. Oh. My. God. Further proof that it was indeed "the kiss." He still slept in the floor that night.

Fast forward, but not long. We had a very short courtship. Fast forward six weeks...yes, I know I was one of those girls. Christmas. Santa brought a shiny diamond. And I mean the actual Santa, or someone paid to be him. I never saw Santa I just heard him land on the roof with tiny reindeer pawing and bells ringing.

Fast forward, but not long...March 6, 1997...

Would have guessed that it is now my anniversary, too? :)

Call it corny, call it fate, call it what you will...I call it true love...

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83 comments:

  1. Jesse Kimmel-FreemanApril 5, 2012 at 5:04 AM

    Oh that is best story ever! I love it! If you didn't see Santa, how do you know? LOL.. I love it!!

    Jesse
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  2. Great story! I signed up for the newsletter.

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  3. Hi Jesse! Santa's like the wind...you never see him but you just know he's there. :) Hi Cynthia! Thanks, hope you enjoy the monthly goodies in there.

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  4. I signed up for the newsletter! Thanks for the opportunity :)

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    1. Hi Kay! Thanks for coming by. ;) Hope you have a great time today and good luck on the prizes.

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  5. I signed up for the newsletter. Awww! Loved the story. Thanks for the giveaway.

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    1. Hi Vanessa! Thanks for stopping by for a read, glad you enjoyed it and I hope you have a great time hopping about today. :)

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  6. I was already signed up for the newsletter :)

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  7. Nice story! Thanks for the great giveaway! I'm a newsletter subscriber. cheryllynne(at)rocketmail(dot)com

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    1. Hi Cheryl! Hope you enjoy receiving it. :) This month's just went out. Have fun today!

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  8. What an awesome story! Sounds like you picked a winner. I wish you many years of happiness.
    I signed up for your newsletter.
    Thanks for participating!
    Happy Birthday Carrie Ann!
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    1. I did pick a winner. ;) Thanks for the well wishes and good luck in all the drawings today!

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  9. What a great love story. :)

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    1. Indeed, I'm living prove that Cinderella endings really happen. :)Have fun today!

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  10. wonderful story

    all the best

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  11. Wonderful story!

    I joined the newsletter list.

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    1. Awesome Lori! I hope you enjoy receiving it and have a great time today. Good luck with the drawings!

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  12. Hmmm, a suspicious person might think all these March 6's make it easy for him to remember every important date....

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    1. Hehe Anne! Indeed they might. I can assure you he never does and I always get two gifts. ;)

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  13. Wow...that was one of the best love stories I've ever read!! Thank you so much for sharing!!

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  14. I signed up for the newsletter list. :)

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    1. Hi Terri! Hope you enjoy receiving it and good luck in the drawings today. Have fun hopping!

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  15. Oh and I'm already a newsletter subscriber! I still loved the post!! I'm a sucker for romance and happy-endings!!

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    1. Hi Nikki! Thanks for being a subscriber and I'm glad you enjoyed the tale of how I met my husband. :) Have a great time hopping today!

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  16. Subscriber :)
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    1. Oh, and I'm already a subscriber.

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    2. Hey there, Jessica! Glad you stopped by and enjoyed my true love story. :) Have a great time hopping!

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  18. I loved your post :)
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    1. Thanks, Liese! Glad to have you drop by and good luck with the prize drawings. :)

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  19. What a great story, Lila! I, too, married a military man, and March 6th is our wedding anniversary :D We just celebrated our 25th. Congratulations to you both!

    Happy Birthday to Carrie! And thank you, Lila, for participating in this hop :) I was already an email subscriber (robertsongena@hotmail.com). Thank you for the wonderful giveaway chance!

    Gena Robertson
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    1. Hi Gena! How awesome we share an anniversary! Congrats on 25 years and Happy belated. ;) Thanks for stopping by...

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  20. Wonderful post! Its so sweet! :) Thanks for sharing with us! ;) Thanks for sharing and for the great giveaway!
    I signed up for your newsletter.
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    1. Hi Shadow! Thanks for coming by. :) Hope you've had fun hopping about today.

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    2. I did, thank you! Hope you had a wonderful Easter! :)

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  21. I am already receiving your email newsletter.
    Thanks for being part of the Birthday hop!
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    1. Hi there Juliana! Thanks for coming by. :) It's been a good day around here.

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  22. That is the best birthday story I have heard!! How amazing!
    I already receive your email!
    Mel
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    1. Hi Mel! Thank you! Glad you get the news every month, hope you enjoy it and hope you've had a great time today. ;)

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  23. Awwww, I love your story!

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    1. Hi Tory! Thanks for coming by and reading it.

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  24. That was a wonderful story.
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    1. Hi Sherry! Thanks for stopping by and following along our little birthday journey. :)

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  25. Great story Lilac.

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  26. Great story! My husband and I were engaged after only dating 3 months and we've been married 28 years. Thanks for the giveaway!

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    1. Hi Susan. Everyone around us doubted we'd last, yet here we are. :) Thanks for stopping by!

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  27. Happy blog hop, have a good one.Deb P
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    1. Hi Renald! Thanks for coming out today. :)

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  28. Thanks for the giveaway...

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    1. Most welcome Leigh, thanks for stopping by!

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  29. What a wonderful story! My parents were married on my great- grandmother's birthday

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    1. Thanks Tamara,and how cool. :) Have a great weekend!

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  30. That is one one the best stories I've read here in the hop, Cynthia Wolff had a great story too. I have signed up for your newsletter. I'm a Navy wife of 28 years, we just retired in Jan., please thank your husband and thank you.
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    1. Hi Z! Thanks so much for your families service as well. :) Hope you had a fun day hopping and you'll drop by again soon.

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  31. Thanks for sharing this story and for participating in Carrie Anne's birthday celebratory hop!

    I already get your newsletter.
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    1. Hi there! Thanks for coming out and so glad you get my news. :) Have a great weekend!

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  32. Thank you for sharing your romantic story with us. I think it is very romantic. And he is obviously a great guy to not rush you, and to sleep on the floor so much while dating.
    I already get your newsletter.
    June
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    1. Hi June! Thanks for coming by, :) truth be told I think he'd still sleep on the floor for me. :)

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  33. Awe, how romantic =D
    I signed up for your newsletter

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    1. Hi Emily! Thanks for coming by. :) Hope you have a good time along the hop...

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  34. Love the story and love the birthday girl, Carrie Ann. I signed up for the newsletter.

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    1. Hi Catherine! Thanks, and she is a gem isn't she? :)

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  35. What a lovely romantic story. Happy Birthday Carrie Ann. I already receive your newsletter.

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    1. Hi Linda! Thanks for coming by, have a great weekend.

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  36. Blog Hopping! Woohoo! Happy Birthday Carrie!

    What a great way to discover new authors/blogs and visit with old friends. Everybody wins this way! LOL

    What a romantic story. I just loved it. I am already a newsletter subscriber as Renee Bennett and I follow via GFC as Nay Nay.

    Thanks for being part of the hop and for the chance to win such a fantastic prize! <^_^>

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    1. Hi Nay Nay! Thanks for coming by today. ;) Have a great weekend...

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  37. Wow! That truly is a fairy-tale story. It is fabulous!
    Happy Anniversary and Birthday to both you and your marine! :)
    Thank you for sharing and the giveaway.

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    1. Hi Tina! Thank you and thanks for coming by. Hope you had a good time hopping about...

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  38. What a nice story. Thank you for sharing it.
    I'm a subscriber at the email below.
    Thank you for the giveaway opportunity!

    Pam
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    1. Hi Pam! Glad you came out for the hop. Hope you're having a great time!

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  39. What a sweet story! Thanks for sharing and for the giveaway!
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  40. Very nice story. I signed up for your newsletter. Thanks for the giveaway.

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  41. What a fantastic story!

    elizabeth @ bookattict . com (subscribed)
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    1. Hey there! Have a great weekend and thanks for stopping by my place on the hop. ;)

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  42. Lila, that is seriously the BEST story! How amazingly cool! And already a newsletter subscriber :)

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  43. Thanks for the giveaway. I signed up for the newsletter.
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